Thursday, January 19, 2012

7 Ways to Say I Love You Every Day not Just the Valentine's One

Valentine's Day is not just a day 
for those who are in love, it is every day! 

7 Simple Tips to Couple Bliss (every day)

Just Say It: Hearing or speaking the words "I Love You" is good for your health. It clears the mind, and is refreshing to know you care and are cared for so greatly by another individual. It has been proven to help relieve stress and create great reassurance. 

          Step it up!- Add reason's why or how you love them. Don't be afraid to break a silence with an "I Love You, and the way you smile"

Don't Wait: Don't wait for a scheduled date night or special occasion for a good reason to make it a special night. Make every day Valentine's Day; make it surprise breakfast in bed,  flowers, dinner, chocolates, or a massage. With random surprises like these you will never get bored and your passion will always be recognized. 

          Step it up!- Be the first one to initiate this idea and don't stop after just once.  

Focus: Spend some unique quality time together where there are minimal distractions (like the TV). Go to a park, museum, wine tasting, etc. instead of a movie where you sit beside each other in silence for hours. Do activities where you can focus on each other's interests and the reasons you love them. Many intriguing conversations are welcome in these environments where you can find yourself falling in love even more. 

          Step it up!- Go back to early date spots and reminisce about the past while making memories in the present. Don't get stuck only going to the "same olds"; be sure to change it up too.  

Be Smart with the Small Stuff: Even if you see each other everyday, tell them they are beautiful....everyday! Compliments are free, flattering, and move things forward ;) When the confidence is flowing the libido gets going.

         Step it up!- Compliment in all situations, with or without make up, in old and new shoes, and when hair is a mess or fresh from the salon. Natural beauty deserves recognition but when we put on our best we want to be noticed for our efforts too. 

Get the Giggles: Laughing is not only great exercise but it is also one of the best stress relievers. The lower the stress in a relationship, the happier the couple will be. When you share laughter with another individual it helps to strengthen bonds and create lasting memories. Steer clear of making  your loved one the target of your jokes to avoid running into and sensitive topics that can quickly lead to a fight. 

          Step it up!- Stress can be relieved in other creative ways such as a squirt gun fight, play catch, going on a run together, or tickle fight. These methods can vanish any tension from the day while introducing playful opportunities

Letter Know: Use personal hand-written letters or notes to express your love in unexpected moments. Randomly finding a note at the bathroom sink or leaving a letter in their suitcase when they travel on a business trip says I love you in the most unexpected times and usually when it is needed most. It shows thoughtfulness in the other person and is a very simple, free, and easy way to let them know that they are on your mind throughout the day no matter where you are. 

          Step it up!- Make it a little adventurous game by leaving messages and love notes under public coffee tables or park benches so that it also becomes your little secret.

Team Up: Don't let the honey do list build or dinner be prepared without each others help. Teaming up on the tasks gets the job done quicker while adding an element of accomplishment by being a team and by completing the chore. Studies show that when a couple models shared roles they are happier than other couples. 

     Step it up!- Make it a game and have some fun with it, everyone wins when the job is complete and good job back massages are traded!

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